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A recent count from the sex offender registry link at The Texas Department of Public Safety,
( https://records.txdps.state.tx.us/DPS_WEB/SorNew/index.aspx ) has shown the following counts:
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Collin County 476 registered sex offenders
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Dallas County 3839 registered sex offenders
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Denton County 447 registered sex offenders
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Tarrant Count 2600 registered sex offenders
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TOTAL: 7362 registered sex offenders
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Those four counties do not even cover all of the Dallas – Fort Worth (DFW) metroplex.
With more than 7362 registered sex offenders in the DFW area, it is imperative that you teach your children safety tips to prevent childhood sexual abuse.
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If you need more information about how to teach your child about sexual abuse prevention, please contact Kathy Broady LCSW or www.AbuseConsultants.com .
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There are many things you can do to reduce the risks of your children being targeted by a sexual predator.
Reduce the Risk.
As a concerned and protective parent, educate yourself about the facts related to sexual abuse.
- Abusers often try to earn the trust of potential victims and their families. This enables them to more easily gain time alone with the children. Abusers are drawn to settings where they can easily gain access to children: schools, sports leagues, clubs, etc.
- More than 80 percent of sexual abuse cases happen in one-adult/one-child situations. Think carefully before leaving your child alone with one adult. If possible, seek out group situations instead. If you can’t avoid leaving your child in a one-adult/one-child situation, drop in unexpectedly.
- Know the adults that your children come into contact with regularly since a sexual abuser could be among them. Ask questions about your children’s teachers, counselors and coaches if you have any concerns.
- Monitor your children’s internet use. Abusers may use the internet as a tool to interact privately with children, with the ultimate goal of luring children into physical contact.
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Communicate openly with your children:
- Open, honest communication may be the best sexual abuse prevention tip. Communication, early and often, about sex and sexual abuse may decrease your child’s vulnerability to abuse and increase the chance they will tell you if they are abused.
- Always talk to your children about their daily activities. Show interest in their feelings. Encourage them to share their concerns and problems with you. Stay in close touch with your child so you will be aware if something changes in his or her life.
- Teach your children about the body, what abuse is, and about sex. Teach them words that will help them feel comfortable discussing sex with you.
- Explain that no one has the right to touch them in a way that makes them uncomfortable, including adults whom they know and trust. Explain that it is okay to set limits on others who overstep boundaries.
- Teach your children that it’s your job to protect them, and that you can protect them only if they tell you when something is wrong. Explain that people who hurt children may tell the children to keep it a secret. They may tell the children their parents will not believe them. They might threaten to hurt the parents if the child shares the secret. Teach your children that adults who say that are wrong, and that your children can share anything with you.
- Understand how children communicate.
- Children may communicate in a roundabout way by saying something such as, “I don’t like to be alone with Mr. Jones.” They may tell parts of what happened or pretend it happened to someone else to test an adult’s reaction.
- Children who do disclose abuse may tell an adult other than a parent.
- If adults respond emotionally or negatively to a disclosure, children will stop talking.
- Make sure your children understand that if someone does make them feel uncomfortable or confused, you will not blame them. Reassure your children that sexual abuse is never the fault of the children.
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http://www.ehow.com/how_8555_keep-child-becoming.html
http://preventchildabuseny.org/preventsexualabuse.shtml
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Protect your children. Be proactive in reducing the risk of your children being targetted by sexual predators.
If you live in the northern Dallas Texas area, and you would like more information or assistance with these issues, please contact Kathy Broady LCSW or www.AbuseConsultants.com .
If you live in Texas, do you know how many sex offenders are located in your local neighborhood?
If not, you can find this information for free through the Texas Sex Offender Registration Program.
https://records.txdps.state.tx.us/DPS_WEB/SorNew/index.aspx
Pursuant to Texas Code of Criminal Procedure Art. 62.005, the Texas Department of Public Safety (DPS) establishes this website [TxDPS Sex Offender Registry] as the official internet public access to the DPS sex offender registration computerized central database.
All information on individual registrants is based on registration information submitted by Texas Department of Criminal Justice, Texas Youth Commission, or various local criminal justice agencies….
All information provided through this website is open record. It may be used by anyone for any purpose….
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While the official count is constantly changing, according to this website, the following lists show the approximate numbers of registered sex offenders living in Dallas and ten of the northern Dallas suburbs at this time:
Allen Texas 40
Carrollton Texas 93
Dallas Texas 2482
Farmers Branch Texas 15
Flower Mound 18
Frisco Texas 22
Garland Texas 280
Lewisville Texas 68
Plano Texas 118
Richardson Texas 31
The Colony Texas 22
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Those numbers are absolutely staggering!!!
Dallas Texas and 10 northern suburbs of Dallas are currently reporting approximately 3189 registered sex offenders.
That’s 3189 sex offenders within less than one hour drive from each other.
Plus, we know that most sex offenders are not caught immediately, and we know that over 30% of the children abused do not disclose their abuse to anyone.
Consequences of child sexual abuse begin affecting children and families immediately. They also affect society in innumerable and negative ways. These effects can continue throughout the life of the survivor so the impact on society for just one survivor continues over multiple decades. Try to imagine the impact of 39 million survivors.
(http://www.darkness2light.org/KnowAbout/statistics_2.asp)
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Do you know what to do to protect your children from being a victim of sexual crimes?
It is imperative that all parents of young children learn more about how to protect their children. Remember, according to the CDC (Centers for Disease Control and Prevention), the prevalence of childhood sexual abuse is:
- 1 in 4 girls is sexually abused before the age of 18
- 1 in 6 boys is sexually abused before the age of 18
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Sexual predators rely on parents not knowing, not caring, or not believing their children. As a society, we can undermine the manipulative power of these violent offenders by preparing ahead of time and actively learning more about preventive safety and protection.
I strongly encourage all parents to make it a priority to learn more about ways to protect your children from the horrors of sexual abuse. With education, and attention, you can make a significant difference in the lives of your children.
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If you live in the northern Dallas Texas area, and you would like more information or assistance with these issues, please contact Kathy Broady LCSW or www.AbuseConsultants.com .
Report Suspected Child Abuse
1-800-252-5400
or 911
or www.txabusehotline.org
24 hours a day, seven days a week
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If you live in Texas, Oklahoma, Louisiana, Arkansas, or New Mexico, or anywhere across the United States, call 1-800-252-5400 to report abuse or neglect that has occurred in Texas.
Child Abuse Hotline 1-800 252-5400
In Texas, all suspected cases of child abuse or neglect must be reported to child protective services and/or the local police department. The Texas Family Code 261.101 requires professionals to make a report within 48 hours of first suspecting abuse, neglect or exploitation of children.
If there is any suspicion that a child is being abused, you are mandated by law to report those suspicions to the Texas Department of Protective and Regulatory Services and the police. Anyone “having cause to believe that a child’s physical or mental health or welfare has or may be adversely affected by abuse or neglect” must report the case.
Do not investigate your suspicions by yourself. That responsibility lies with the Texas Department of Protective and Regulatory Services. A report should NEVER be made to the child’s parents. The investigating agency will contact all parties involved.
Anyone who files a report is immune from civil or criminal liability – if the report is made in “good faith” and “without malice.”
- “Good Faith” means the person took reasonable steps to learn the facts that were readily available and at hand.
- “Without Malice” means the person did not intend to injure or violate the rights of another person.
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Failure to report suspected child abuse or neglect is punishable by imprisonment of up to 180 days and/or a fine of up to 1,000. (Texas Family Code, Chapter 34)
Have the following information available when you make your report:
- Name of the child
- Age of the child
- Address of the child
- A brief description of the child
- Names of other household members – parents, siblings, etc.
- Physical condition of the child
- Current injuries, medical problems or behavioral problems
- Other contact information
- Any other additional information that you can provide.
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The Human Resources code Chapter 48 (48.051) requires a person having cause to believe that an elderly or disabled person is in the state of abuse, neglect, or exploitation to report the information required immediately.
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Important Telephone Numbers:
Child Abuse Hotline 1-800 252-5400
Texas DFPS Office 512-438-4800
(Department of Family and Protective Services)
Texas Runaway Hotline 1-888-580-HELP (4357)
Texas Youth Hotline 1-800-210-2278
Governor’s Crime Victim Clearinghouse 1-800 252-3423
National Runaway Line 1-800 621-4000
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If you need further assistance with these issues, please contact Kathy Broady LCSW at www.AbuseConsultants.com .
Protective parenting includes being honestly and genuinely aware that your innocent, precious children have significant risks of being sexually abused by someone you know. If you are motivated to increase your awareness of this issue and to learn more about the facts, your ability and effectiveness of preventing sexual abuse from devastating the lives of your children will be greatly increased.
The statistics about childhood sexual abuse are shocking:
- 1 in 4 girls is sexually abused before the age of 18.
- 1 in 6 boys is sexually abused before the age of 18.
- 1 in 5 children are solicited sexually while on the internet.
- Nearly 70% of all reported sexual assaults (including assaults on adults) occur to children ages 17 and under.
- An estimated 39 million survivors of childhood sexual abuse exist in America today.
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Even within the walls of their own homes, children are at risk for sexual abuse:
- 30-40% of victims are abused by a family member.
- Another 50% are abused by someone outside of the family whom they know and trust.
- Approximately 40% are abused by older or larger children whom they know.
- Therefore, only 10% are abused by strangers.
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Sexual abuse can occur at all ages, probably younger than you think:
- The median age for reported abuse is 9 years old.
- More than 20% of children are sexually abused before the age of 8.
- Nearly 50% of all victims of forcible sodomy, sexual assault with an object, and forcible fondling are children under 12.
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Most children don’t tell even if they have been asked:
- Evidence that a child has been sexually abused is not always obvious, and many children do not report that they have been abused.
- Over 30% of victims never disclose the experience to ANYONE.
- Young victims may not recognize their victimization as sexual abuse.
- Almost 80% initially deny abuse or are tentative in disclosing. Of those who do disclose, approximately 75% disclose accidentally. Additionally, of those who do disclose, more than 20% eventually recant even though the abuse occurred.
- Fabricated sexual abuse reports constitute only 1% to 4% of all reported cases. Of these reports, 75% are falsely reported by adults and 25% are reported by children. Children only fabricate ½% of the time.
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http://www.darkness2light.org/KnowAbout/statistics_2.asp
Statistical information provided by Darkness to Light, a national nonprofit 501c3 organization and initiative – a primary prevention program with the mission of reducing the incidence of child sexual abuse through public awareness and education. Specific references available upon request.
Darkness to Light’s public awareness campaign seeks to raise awareness of the prevalence and consequences of child sexual abuse. Their ads are a “call to action” encouraging adults to call or go online for free materials that educate adults to prevent, recognize and react responsibly to child sexual abuse.
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If you have questions or concerns about how the issues of sexual abuse are affecting you or your family members, please contact Kathy Broady LCSW at www.AbuseConsultants.com .
I’ve gathered a variety of information from a variety of sources to show the prevalence and seriousness childhood sexual abuse (CSA). The stats aren’t exactly the same from source to source, but regardless of any small discrepancies, the numbers are still staggering.
The bottom line is that there is far too much sexual abuse in our communities.
An important element of protective parenting is being aware of this reality. Automatically assuming your child is safe from sexual predators is dabbling in dangerous denial. All parents must be fully aware that their own children are at as much risk as the next child.
Please note: Your children are at the greatest risk from someone they already know. Most children are not abused in “stranger danger” situations.
Once you truly understand how serious the risks are, it will become vitally clear to teach your children various prevention tips.
Your child’s safety matters!
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- Every day in the United States four children die as a result of abuse and neglect. During 2006, 227 Texas children died as a direct result of abuse or neglect. (DFPS 2006 Data Book)
- Every ten seconds a child is victimized by abuse or neglect. During 2006, in the State of Texas, 67,737 children were confirmed to have been victimized by abuse. Closer to home, in Collin County there were 4,155 children alleged to have been abused and 1090 children confirmed as abused. (DFPS 2006 Data Book)
- Prevent Child Abuse America reports that each year the (direct and indirect) cost of child abuse and neglect in the United States is in excess of $94 billion.
- A National Call to Action states that the rate of child abuse is ten times the rate of cancer.
- Almost 96% of children victimized by abuse know their offender; accordingly, less than 4% of children are victimized by a stranger.
- In Dallas County Texas a child is abused every eleven seconds.
- 33% of girls are sexually abused before the age of 18.
- 16% of boys are sexually abused before the age of 18.
- One in three sexual assault victims is under the age of 12.
- 43% of sexual assault victims are ages 6 and younger
- 34% of sexual assault victims are ages 7 to 11.
- 61% of female sexual assault victims are under 18.
- 83% of sexually abused boys are under age 12
- 26% of sexually abused boys are under age 6.
- In most cases, the child knew the sex offender. With girls, 29% were relatives and 60% were acquaintances. With boys, 16% were relatives and 44% were acquaintances.
- Physical force was not used in two-thirds of incestuous abuse.
- For 60% of “sexually active” girls under the age of 14, their only sexual experience has been a sexual assault.
- Children who grow up in a family where there is domestic violence are 8 times more likely to be sexually abused within that family.
- 90 to 95% of all sexual abuse cases are never reported to the police.
- Sexual abuse accounts for 13% of substantiated cases reported to local Departments of Social Services.
- Fabricated sexual abuse reports constitute 1 to 4% of reported cases. Of this, 75% of reports are by adults and 25% are by children.
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Sources:
http://www.cacplano.org/statistics.htm
http://www.dcac.org/pages/education_coalition.aspx
http://www.wingsfound.org/statsChildhood.html
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If you have any questions about these issues, please contact Kathy Broady LCSW at www.AbuseConsultants.com .

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